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Why Are Gen Z Women Dating Older Men

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Gen Z Dating Apps and Where They Meet

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30 Gen Z Dating Terms You Need to Know in 2025

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Gen Z Dating Slang and Modern Romance Trends

August 14, 2025August 13, 2025
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The Gen Z Stare Is the New Flirt

August 14, 2025August 13, 2025
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What Is the Love Language of Gen Z

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How Gen Z Flirts and Communicates in 2025

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Dating/

Gen Z Dating Trends and Culture in 2025

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Dating/

Recognizing Old Relationship Patterns Before Repeating Them

August 3, 2025July 31, 2025
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Dating After Divorce/

Post-Divorce Relationship Expectations: What’s Real and What’s Not

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Dating/

Dating out Of Loneliness and What to Watch out For

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Choosing Not to Date After Divorce and Being Okay with It

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How to Stop Comparing New People to Your Ex

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Lesbian Dating After Divorce: Starting Over Authentically

August 1, 2025July 30, 2025
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Dating an Ex-Spouse After Divorce: Can It Work Again?

August 1, 2025July 30, 2025
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Dating a Friend After Divorce: Risky or Worth It?

July 31, 2025July 30, 2025
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Dating Feels Like Cheating After Divorce – Is That Normal?

July 31, 2025July 29, 2025
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Dating After Divorce/

Stages of Dating After Divorce (And How to Progress)

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Dating After Divorce at 60: Love Doesn’t Expire

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Dating After Divorce at 50: Redefining Romance in Midlife

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Dating After Divorce in Your 40s: New Rules, New Confidence

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Dating After Divorce at 30: Rebuilding Love Early

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Guilt and Dating After Divorce: How to Let Go and Move Forward

July 28, 2025
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How to Start Dating After Divorce (Without Losing Your Mind)

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Dating After Divorce: The Ultimate Guide to Starting Over With Confidence

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11 Signs of an On-and-Off Relationship That Will Never Work

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8 Signs You’re in a Silent Breakup and Don’t Know It Yet

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9 Signs You’re Trauma Dumping on Dates Without Realizing It

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10 Signs You Have a Savior Complex in Relationships

June 29, 2025June 26, 2025
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Passion vs Toxic Relationship: How to Tell the Difference

June 28, 2025June 24, 2025
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7 Signs of Emotional Manipulation in a Relationship

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8 Gaslighting Phrases That Are Meant to Break You Down

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11 Signs You’re the Toxic One in the Relationship

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13 Benefits of Being Single That No One Talks About

June 26, 2025June 23, 2025
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9 Signs Someone Is Rizzing You

June 25, 2025June 23, 2025
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Why Breakups Hurt So Much—Even When You Know It Was Right

June 25, 2025June 23, 2025
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9 Signs of a Trauma Bond (That Feel Like Love but Aren’t)

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Break Ups/

Why Your Ex Keeps Coming Back Just When You’re Finally Healing

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11 Things Men Do After a Breakup (That They’ll Never Admit Out Loud)

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11 Psychological Stages of a Breakup (And How to Survive Each One)

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9 Signs Your Breakup Was a Blessing in Disguise

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8 Signs You’re Stuck in a Toxic Dating Cycle

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8 Signs You’re Not Ready for a Relationship

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Revenge Cheating: Why People Do It and What It Costs

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Financial Infidelity: The Hidden Cheating That Breaks Trust

June 20, 2025June 22, 2025
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Dating/

Dating Deal Breakers: What’s Non-Negotiable in 2025?

June 20, 2025June 22, 2025
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Dating a Friend: Can It Work Without Ruining Everything?

June 19, 2025June 22, 2025
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Dating a Coworker: Risky Move or Office Romance Win?

June 19, 2025June 22, 2025
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Dating a Recovering Addict: What You Should Know First

June 18, 2025June 22, 2025
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Long Distance Dating: How to Make It Work Without Losing Your Mind

June 17, 2025June 22, 2025
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cheating101/ December 12, 2022January 25, 2024

Alternative Sites to Ashley Madison

Alternative Sites to Ashley Madison

If you’re looking to kickstart an affair, there are few better hookup platforms than Ashley Madison. It’s one of the most established dating platforms on the internet, with millions of users worldwide. However, Ashley Madison isn’t without its […]

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cheating101/ December 5, 2022January 25, 2024

How Secure is Ashley Madison? Like Really…

How Secure is Ashley Madison

Ashley Madison has remained the online platform of choice for married men looking to pursue extramarital affairs since 2001. Despite being one of the most established hookup sites around, Ashley Madison hasn’t been without its fair share of […]

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cheating101/ November 24, 2022January 25, 2024

What is Infidelity?

What is Infidelity?

Otherwise known as cheating, infidelity refers to the act of one partner being unfaithful to the other. In most cases, it typically applies to sexual activity, but there’s no strict definition of what constitutes infidelity. More people are […]

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cheating101/ November 21, 2022January 25, 2024

Illicit Encounters Tips and Tricks

Illicit Encounters Tips and Tricks

If you’re seriously considering an affair, you’ll need a discreet online platform to connect with singles and like-minded married people. For years, the likes of Ashley Madison (Score the Best Connections: Expert Ashley Madison Tips) have been the first port […]

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cheating101/ November 19, 2022January 25, 2024

What Does Cheating Say About a Person?

What Does Cheating Say About a Person?

Cheating is more common than you might think. According to a recent survey, around 46% of people in committed relationships have engaged in infidelity at some point or other. While men have long got a bad rap for […]

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cheating101/ November 14, 2022January 25, 2024

Zoosk Tips and Tricks

Zoosk Tips and Tricks

Zoosk began life as a Facebook feature. Since 2007, this innovative dating platform has emerged as one of the most popular services of its kind. As of 2022, Zoosk boasts around 40 million active users, with eager singles […]

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cheating101/ November 10, 2022January 25, 2024

How To Cheat On A Business Trip With Ease

How To Cheat On A Business Trip With Ease

If you’re worried about getting away with cheating, there’s no better cover than a business trip. I mean think about it, it’s the perfect way to cheat on your wife without having to worry too much about hiding […]

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cheating101/ November 10, 2022January 26, 2024

How to Get Free Credits for Ashley Madison

How to Get Free Credits for Ashley Madison

For married men and guys in long-term relationships, Ashley Madison is an incredibly effective platform for hooking up with sexy singles, married women and MILFs. If you’re looking to get an extramarital affair off the ground or want […]

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cheating101/ November 6, 2022January 26, 2024

AdultFriendFinder Tips and Tricks By An Experienced User

AdultFriendFinder Tips and Tricks

With more than 80 million users worldwide, AdultFriendFinder is one of the largest adult dating sites on the planet. Although there tend to be more men using the service than women, single guys and those looking to play […]

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Break Ups/ November 6, 2022January 26, 2024

How Common is Cheating in Marriage?

How Common is Cheating in Marriage

Infidelity is more common than you might think. According to recent studies, around 75% of men in a committed relationship have admitted to cheating on their spouse at least once. Historically, gender differences have meant the rates of […]

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Dating In Your 50s/ November 6, 2022March 13, 2025

What Do 50 Year Old Women Want in Bed?

What Do 50 Year Old Women Want in Bed

Women’s sexual appetites don’t drop off a cliff after the age of 50. While menopause can cause an issue for some women, it’s usually only a temporary concern. With hormones in check, older women are among the most […]

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Break Ups/ November 3, 2022January 26, 2024

How to Get Over a Married Man

How to Get Over a Married Man

Getting involved with a married man is never a good idea. If you’re the other woman, you’ll never be able to enjoy the full benefits of a healthy relationship. Chances are, you’re already under-appreciated, with your married lover […]

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Break Ups/ November 2, 2022January 26, 2024

How To Deal With An Affair Breakup? The Ultimate Guide

How To Deal With An Affair Breakup?

Up until now, I’ve tried to keep this blog upbeat, funny and lively. But the truth is, affair partners losing interest, affairs ending and coping with those breakups is a big part of cheating.  If you’re reading this very […]

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cheating101/ November 1, 2022January 26, 2024

Is Sexting Cheating?

Is Sexting Cheating

Is sexting cheating? In the age of smartphones and social media, the lines between innocent online banter and genuine infidelity have become blurred. In fact, many people now in a committed relationship will have met online via a […]

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Dating/ October 26, 2022January 26, 2024

Something Casual Meaning

Something Casual Meaning

Have you been playing the field for some time now? When navigating the world of online dating, you’ve probably come across your fair share of profiles saying someone is only interested in a casual relationship. Casual dating is […]

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Tips For Men/ October 13, 2022January 26, 2024

What is a Hall Pass in a Relationship?

What is a Hall Pass in a Relationship

A monogamous relationship isn’t for everyone. Around 20% of Americans report being unhappy in their romantic relationship. What’s more, a significant number of people have actually pursued sex outside of their primary relationship. It’s estimated as many as […]

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Tips For Women/ October 8, 2022January 26, 2024

When A Guy Calls You Babe & Why I Still Do It

When A Guy Calls You Babe

I’m at a point in my life where (despite being married) I have several women on rotation. I like having affairs, I like the sneaking around and the excitement that that brings. I know everything there is to […]

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cheating101/ October 8, 2022September 24, 2024

13 Signs a Female Coworker Likes You But is Hiding It

Signs a Female Coworker Likes You But is Hiding It

A significant number of affairs start in the workplace. In fact, according to some studies, as many as 30% of relationships begin life as office romances. Workplace flings can often cause issues for married people and those in […]

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Break Ups/ October 8, 2022January 26, 2024

How Often Does A Married Man Think About His Mistress?

How Often Does A Married Man Think About His Mistress

It’s interesting to me that people still use the word mistress. Nowadays, it’s been replaced by the phrase affair partner. Maybe because there’s no word for a male mistress. But to save you time and energy to dig […]

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Break Ups/ September 27, 2022January 26, 2024

15 Terrifying Signs Your Affair Partner Is Losing Interest

Signs your affair partner is losing interest

Having an affair is amazing. If you go about it the right way, with the right affair partner, there are simply no words to describe what an amazing experience it is. The rush, the excitement, the sex, the […]

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Break Ups/ September 22, 2022January 27, 2024

Having An Affair; The Good, The Bad & The Ugly

Having An Affair

I’ve cheated a lot over the years and have been successful in getting away with it. I’ve become an expert at knowing how to find women to cheat with, what to say to get out of the house, […]

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Tips For Men/ September 22, 2022January 27, 2024

Best Hotels In London To Have An Affair

Best Hotels In London To Have Sex With Your Affair Partner

Having an affair is hard work. If you’re tired of sneaking away for last-minute encounters, it’s high time to consider scheduling a dirty weekend with your affair partner. Once you’ve locked down your alibi and freed up your […]

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Dating/ September 19, 2022January 27, 2024

My 8 Step System Of Fixing Your Approach Anxiety

Approach Anxiety

Approach anxiety is actually a thing – it’s almost a phobia. That said, I never realised it had a term. The best definition I found online said: Approach anxiety is an irrational fear which can stop you from […]

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Break Ups/ September 15, 2022January 27, 2024

Why Do Cheating Husbands Stay Married

Why Do Cheating Husbands Stay Married

Ah, marriage. The blissful union of two hearts, two souls, two laundry baskets overflowing with mismatched socks. It’s a beautiful thing, like a perfectly balanced margarita – sweet, tart, and with a little kick that keeps things interesting. […]

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cheating101/ September 14, 2022January 27, 2024

Best Hotels in New York to Have Sex With Your Affair Partner

Best Hotels in New York to Have Sex

Planning a sneaky getaway with your other woman? City breaks are always the best way to go, even if it’s for a solo vacation. New York is without doubt the best of the bunch. The Big Apple might […]

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cheating101/ September 13, 2022January 27, 2024

How To End An Affair The Easy Way

How To End An Affair The Easy Way

Extramarital affairs are fun while they last. Maybe you’ve sought out a side piece to make up for a lack of passion in the bedroom. Perhaps an innocent gym visit led to a steamy encounter in the showers. […]

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cheating101/ September 11, 2022March 29, 2024

How to Pickup MILFs | My Step By Step Formula

How to Pickup MILFs

Maybe it’s me, but whenever I hear the term MILF, even to this day I can’t help but think of Stifler’s Mom from American Pie. She was the epitome of what a good looking MILF would look like […]

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cheating101/ September 1, 2022January 27, 2024

4 Best Hotels in Chicago to Have Sex With An Affair Partner

Best Hotels in Chicago to Have Sex

Planning a dirty weekend in the Windy City? Perhaps you’re a local looking to get away from home for a night of no-strings sex. There’s no shortage of premium hotels in Chicago, with five-star options aplenty. Ready to […]

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Dating Apps / Sites/ August 30, 2022September 24, 2024

How To Spot Bots On Ashley Madison

How To Spot Bots On Ashley Madison

Since launching in 2001, Ashley Madison has made a name for itself as the premier online platform for hookups. Although this online network is open to just about any user, it’s particularly popular with married men looking to […]

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cheating101/ August 29, 2022January 27, 2024

7 Best Places to Cheat on Your Spouse Without Leaving A Trace

Best Places to Cheat on Your Spouse

Thinking about cheating on your spouse? Whether you’re browsing dating sites for no strings attached casual sex or looking to entertain multiple extramarital affairs, you’ll need to think carefully about venues to avoid getting caught. Both men and […]

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Flirting/ August 24, 2022November 8, 2024

What is Micro-Cheating?

What is Micro-Cheating?

For many people in a committed relationship, cheating doesn’t actually have to involve casual sex or full blown infidelity. Micro-cheating, or emotional cheating as some call it, can be just as catastrophic for a relationship. If you’re thinking […]

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Dating/ June 29, 2022January 29, 2024

How To Use Tinder If You’re Married (for affairs) | But Is It Worth It?

How To Use Tinder If You're Married

Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the last 10 years, you’ve probably heard of the app Tinder. It is one of the most popular dating apps in history and has completely revolutionised the way people meet […]

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Flirting/ June 21, 2022January 29, 2024

How To Get A Married Guy To Chase You

How To Get A Married Guy To Chase You

It’s no secret that men love the thrill of the chase (even if he’s married). And as a woman, you probably want to know how to get a guy to chase you. Well, there are certain things you […]

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Break Ups/ June 9, 2022January 29, 2024

When Affairs Turn Into Love | A Cautionary Tale

When Affairs Turn Into Love

I’d love to sit here and act like I move from girlfriend to girlfriend without emotion. I really would. In fact, I wish I was like that. Sadly, I’m not built that way. It’s a major flaw in […]

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cheating101/ June 4, 2022January 29, 2024

2 Methods On How To Pickup Married Women In The Gym

How To Pickup Women In The Gym

I was working out with a friend of mine the other day at the gym. I usually like to train alone but for some reason had got dragged along by him. About 30 seconds into walking in, I […]

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cheating101/ May 20, 2022January 29, 2024

3 Secretive Ways How Cheaters Communicate

How Cheaters Communicate

I have this friend of mine, he’s a businessman, and he wishes he could have an affair. He talks about it all the time. I wouldn’t be surprised if he dreams about it. And whilst he doesn’t have […]

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Break Ups/ May 6, 2022January 29, 2024

Even Cheaters Feel Pain Over Breakups

I’ve never been good at breakups. Ever. Even when I broke up with my first girlfriend at 17, I was a wreck. Firstly I got dumped!!  And at the time, so many things went through my mind. That […]

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cheating101/ May 3, 2022January 29, 2024

50 Tested Ashley Madison Tips & Tricks | Get More Matches Today

Ashley Madison Tips & Tricks

Let me just tell you gents, that if you’re reading an article like this one, you’re probably looking to increase the number of matches you get, which will get you that one step closer to finding your next […]

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cheating101/ April 22, 2022January 29, 2024

Die With The Lie: What Cover Story Do You Tell Your Mistress?

I recently re-watched the movie Focus. What an amazing movie. It’s about a team of con artists, running a series of small and big scams. There’s something about this movie that I can relate to so much and […]

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cheating101/ April 15, 2022January 19, 2024

Cheating Is Like A Drug | Highly Addictive

cheating is like a drug

There’s something about cheating which is truly quite addictive. The build up to it, the cheating and the getting away with it – it’s thrilling! There really are no words to describe it. I remember the first time […]

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cheating101/ March 23, 2022January 29, 2024

If You Could Get Away With Cheating Would You?

Let’s for a moment assume that you had that pen that Will Smith so amazingly demonstrated in Men In Black – you know the pen that flashes out green light and makes you have amnesia. Now, for the […]

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cheating101/ March 21, 2022January 29, 2024

Are You Still A Cheater If You’ve Never Been Caught

Why would someone write a blog on cheating? Well, here’s the thing, I’m a married man with 3 young kids and I cheat. There I said it. Let’s be honest it’s hardly something you can shout from the […]

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cheating101/ January 3, 2022January 9, 2024

How to Convince a Woman to Cheat with You

How to Convince a Woman to Cheat with You

Thinking about cheating on your other half? Get ready to learn how to lie. You’ll need endless excuses to get out of the house to meet up with your side piece. Of course, you’ll also need to actually […]

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cheating101/ May 14, 2021May 14, 2024

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