7 Ways To Get Ready For An Affair | Revealed

If you happen to have stumbled on this article because you’re determined to have an affair and are looking at where to start – then the answer is simple. 

It’s yourself. 

What it isn’t is PUA pick up lines and conversational tricks, you don’t need apps (yet) and you certainly don’t want to be chatting random women up at the Bus Stop.

You want to work on every facet of yourself to start with. And trust me when I say, your current partner / wife is also going to reap the benefits of your transformation. 

Also, and let’s be smart here. Half the douche bags that get caught start doing all this life changing stuff once they’re having an affair; thereby raising suspicions. That’s the last thing we want to do. 

7 Ways To Get Ready For An Affair:

Exercise

You may have gotten too comfortable in your current relationship that maybe you’ve let the pounds stack up. One too many takeaways and a comfy sofa, chances are you’ve let go a little bit.

That’s ok!!

Get moving. I’m not saying go crazy. What I’m saying is do something like walk 10k steps / day in one long timeframe. Don’t think walking around the house and office actually counts as real exercise.

Do a sport, play football, rugby, tennis, squash. Join a boxing gym or go running with friends. Do HIT workouts in front of the TV or better yet get a Peleton.

Now the other massively interesting thing that you need to know, is that on a lot of these dating sites, women in large majority are putting that they love exercising in their bios. Words like ‘athletic’, ‘lean’ and ‘fit’ are peppered in the section of what they’re looking for in a man. So get moving.

Oh, and by the way, it happens to be fucking good for you. You’ll start to look amazing and you’ll feel even better. 

Dress To Impress

Think about all those GQ, magnetic mother fuckers in the movies. Take James Bond (any of them), Thomas Crown Affair (either one), Casanova, What Women Want, Hitch; they were all suave mother fuckers. 

That polo top and baggy jeans ain’t gonna fly. Not having been clothes shopping in 3 years and acting like you’re thrifty – is code for cheap and out of touch.

Remember you’re competing with younger and single guys. You have to up your game. Get ideas from channels on IG like this one

You’ll genuinely get to say on account of your exercise nothing fits. Boom new wardrobe right there – without anyone thinking twice about it. I was once with quite the fashion queen, and she literally took my password and would put outfits and skincare products into my shopping basket for me.

If I liked what she’d pick I’d buy it, which was most things, well other than the pink trousers. I drew the line there! Pink shirt ok, but not the trousers.

So unless you’re that lucky, get on Instagram. Look for things you think you could pull off and get shopping. 

Side Hustle

I’m not even going to lie. Affairs cost money. And don’t get so addicted that you stop paying the electric bill. But they do cost money plain and simple.

Hotel rooms, restaurant bills, drinks, maybe even a holiday – I won’t deny that it’s an expensive hobby, like golf or skiing!

So unless your job is paying you well and no one at home will miss your discretionary spending, get yourself a side hustle. Examples include anything online, from e-com to affiliate stuff, from arbitrage to dropshipping. Review books, help with translations, create logos, design ebook covers, write articles, edit articles – the list is endless.

There’s countless ways to make money online, so don’t worry, you won’t be caught sneaking out the house and using the family car as an UBER 

Meditate

It sounds so stupid right. Why the fuck would you meditate in order to pick up women?

So let’s lay it out.

There’s going to be a fair bit of lying when you’re having an affair. I’m sure you’re a good person and you have your reasons to have an affair, as do I – and state management is key.

Think about all those guys that have been trained in beating lie detectors. A big part of it, comes from being able to control your state of mind. It’s not just what you say, it’s how you say it – it’s your tonality, your reactions, your gestures – your entire body language – which will give you away.

So whether you’re lying to your partner about where you’re going or where you’ve been, or to your new side chick about if you’re married or not – knowing how to drop into a zen like state at a second’s notice is going to help you keep your cover stories intact.

Research

Start researching decent bars in random places, like down country lanes, or in country hotels, In a city centre alleyway to in bars in basements. Find places that are cool, picturesque but not popular.

Don’t be stupid and go to the newest restaurant or the most instagramable place – because you’re going to get seen and then you’re going to be busted! 

Listen Up

Learn to listen. And I don’t mean for the sake of it. But really learn to listen.

All of us like to be heard, why do you think I have this blog, in our own strange way we want to be heard. Listening is like any other skill, it takes practice.

Start understanding how language works and how people talk. Listen out for speed of speech, favourite words, tonality, do they speak in 5 word sentences or longer. Do they nod when they talk or use gestures with certain words. Use your ears and eyes to really listen to when people talk. It’s not about just listening to their words but also how they say it.

It matters because it’s polite, it’s gentlemanly – no one likes the guy that talks too much! In the field of NLP they talk about how a lot of the above are unconscious cues.

Meaning that people don’t think about what they say, they just talk. Just as much as they blink without thinking about it.

And so to create rapport one needs to identify what the other persons doing and almost do it back.

And whilst this definitely works if done right – the truth is just learning to listen and responding to what’s being said, will make you extremely attractive. Learning to be more aware will change the way you communicate. 

Cover Your Tracks

Learn how to use computers. And what I mean by this is, a big part of having affairs is about covering your tracks. It’s like doing the perfect heist. You have to plan so much out with such precision.

But it’s the small things that get the amateurs busted.

If you use a joint computer, remember to delete your cache. Delete your history. Use browsers like Tor to protect your searching on sites.

Learn how to hide app icons on your phone. Remember apps cost money so be sure the billing is paid by you and not from a joint account. Otherwise it’ll be hard to explain why the Tinder Gold receipt got sent to everyone in the family.

These 7 steps will help you improve so much about yourself as well as giving you the confidence to start approaching and ultimately ending up with other women. Good women. 

And let’s be fair, all of the above is good for you! So improve yourself, look the part and you’re gonna be doing just fine!!! 

Don’t blame me when your existing partner / wife also loves the improvements.

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