Thinking about cheating on your other half? Get ready to learn how to lie. You’ll need endless excuses to get out of the house to meet up with your side piece. Of course, you’ll also need to actually get the attention of another woman in the first place. If you’re not too concerned about striking up a personal connection, this is fairly easy. Dating apps for affairs and hook sites make it easy to find someone focused solely on quick sex with no questions asked. However, some men prefer more of a challenge.

Perhaps you’ve got your eye on a new co-worker. Maybe there’s a woman at the gym who’s turned your head more than once. It’s easy enough to break the ice with casual conversation, but moving things up a notch and convincing a woman to cheat with you is a different matter entirely. Need some tips on how to convince a woman to commit to an affair? Read on for everything you need to know.

Is She Already Taken? How To Get A Girl To Cheat

Most men looking to cheat keep things simple and seek out unattached singles. This way, you’re not competing with the attention of other men. Sometimes, it’s easier to seek out married women looking for no-strings thrills outside of the marital bed. However, there may come a time when someone catches your eye, only for you to find out they’re already involved with someone. Unless they’ve got a history of cheating, it can be difficult to convince a married woman or someone in a long-term relationship to do the dirty on their spouse. It’s not always easy, but by turning to a few tried and tested tactics, you can increase your odds of landing your next hookup.

Is it Okay to Cheat with Someone in a Relationship?

Don’t lose too much sleep over the fact you’re chasing a woman who’s involved with someone. If she’s giving even the slightest indication she might be interested in you, you’re not crossing any major boundaries. We’re not living in the Middle Ages anymore. Adultery might be a crime in more backward corners of the world, but the urge to play away is entirely natural.

What’s more, if you’re looking to broaden your horizons, you’ll want to cast the net wide and expand your pool to include attached women. The best candidates have almost always been snapped up already. Don’t see this as a barrier to getting your own way. Instead, think of it as a challenge.

Getting a vibe that she might be interested in you? If she’s only slightly considering cheating on her partner, she’ll do it sooner or later. Better with you than with someone else.

How to Spot a Potential Cheater

Before you start wasting time convincing a woman to have an affair with you, take a moment to think about why they might be looking to cheat in the first place. Sometimes, a woman might not be getting it at home. If you have your eye on a sex-starved married woman, you won’t have to do too much convincing to get them into bed. Sometimes, a woman might simply be lonely, even if she’s been attached for months, if not years. These are ideal targets if you’re looking for extramarital encounters.

Is someone in your social circle running their spouse down in conversation? Many women aren’t afraid of letting people know just how little they think of their spouse. If a co-worker or casual acquaintance isn’t holding back when it comes to shitting on their spouse in conversation, you’ve got a clear opening. Chances are, they’re not looking for reassurances about their relationship. More likely, they’re throwing out an invitation and looking for a bite.

Convincing Them to Cheat….How To Make A Girl Cheap?

Lined up a target? Now you can start putting the moves on them to convince them to cheat with you. Some men avoid pursuing married women. Extramarital affairs can get messy, especially if both parties are hitched, but an unhappy wife is usually far easier to play than a free and easy singleton.

Getting Married Women to Cheat

Women in unhappy marriages and long-term relationships tend to suffer from low self-esteem. If they’re getting little in the way of emotional support and intimacy at home, they’re ripe for the picking. You have got a couple of options here. If you’re feeling brave, move right on in at the perfect time and let them know you’re in the market for sex. If you’re happy to play the long game, build them up a little. Let them know they’re worth more than a sexless marriage and reinforce the idea that they’re worth far more than what they’re getting at home.

If you’re going the long way round, be prepared to do your fair share of listening. And we say listen, we mean it. Listen to their gripes about their home lives. Make sure you’re taking stock of the things they’re unhappy about. This information is gold dust. When the times come to play your cards, you’ll need to draw on all of this to win them over.

If she’s been suffering in silence for a long time and hasn’t yet strayed from her spouse, don’t expect to get what you’re after immediately. It might take weeks, if not months to convince them to get down and dirty with you. Wait until she starts giving you telltale signals that she wants to take things to the next step. Are your interactions becoming more physical? Is she being more loaded with her compliments? You’re now in a strong position to lay everything out on the table.

Getting Single Women to Cheat

Not every woman you’ll be interested in will be attached to a boyfriend or husband. However, if they know you’re involved with someone yourself, it’s not as easy as letting them know you’re up for sex.

Convincing a single woman to play the role of a sidepiece can be difficult, especially if they’re a colleague or someone within your social circle. Thankfully, there’s a lot you can do to sweeten the deal and increase your odds of getting an affair off the ground.

If you have your sights on someone, make sure you’re working your own relationship gripes into casual conversation. Avoid overloading exchanges with complaints. Play too hard here and you may come across as unreasonable. Instead, put the aim on your other half. Mention how your schedule is being monitored. Let your prospective sex partner know you get little time to yourself.

You can blur the lines between reality and fantasy here. If you’re genuinely stuck in a rut at home, you’ve plenty of information to draw on. However, if you’re simply looking to get more sex, you can get creative when buttering up a prospective side piece.

Some singles will love the thrill of being the other woman. However, others are going to approach the issue with more caution. If they’re not involved with someone else themselves, they don’t stand to lose much. That being said, they probably don’t want to get branded a slut for playing around with someone else’s man. If you think sex is on the cards, let them know you’re looking for discretion and that this goes both ways.

Where to Find the Best Cheating Prospects

If you’re looking to chase sex outside of your relationship, you’ll first need to find a willing partner. Sometimes, you’ll happen upon the ideal candidate by chance. However, some men need to go out of their way to find someone willing to engage in an affair. Need some pointers? Below, we’ve outlined some of the best avenues worth exploring for men looking to cheat.

Reconnect with an Ex

This might seem like a dangerous route to take and some friends will tell you that you’re playing with fire. If your current spouse knows about your ex, they’re probably already wary of you making contact with them. However, a background level of suspicion isn’t the same as actively scouring your social media accounts for telltale exchanges or monitoring your texts.

Ex-partners are a great place to start if you’re having trouble finding a woman who’s happy to cheat with you. In an ideal world, you’ll be dealing with an ex who hasn’t quite gotten over you. Just approach with caution. Make sure any relationship is limited to sex and physical encounters. Once feelings start coming into play, you leave yourself open to emotional blackmail and, before you know it, you’re entering Fatal Attraction territory.

Has an ex kept in contact with you since the relationship ended? Test the waters to see what they’re actually after. If reconnecting and casual sex comes up in conversation, take the next steps and arrange a meeting. Keep it casual with drinks and, if the topic turns toward sex, move things forward.

Workplace Affairs

The majority of affairs start life at the office. In fact, it’s thought that as many as 85% of affairs begin as workplace-based relationships. Most people spend just as much time with co-workers as with their families. If you’re working a full-time job and putting in countless hours of overtime, it’s easy to build strong relationships with co-workers. The good news for men looking to cheat is that more time at the office usually gives you a clear idea of which women at your workplace are likely to cheat.

Managing a workplace affair can be messy, especially if there’s an eventual fallout. To make life easier, approach a workplace affair with a degree of professionalism, no matter how hot and steamy the sexual side of things is. The good thing about a workplace affair is that, should one of you eventually break it off, the other party is going to want to save face. There’s not likely to cause a scene in front of colleagues if things go south. If they do, they run the risk of damaging their reputation and, in a worst-case scenario, force themselves into a situation where they have to leave.

Fellow Gym Users

The gym is the perfect place to find someone for no-strings sex and casual encounters. For starters, it’s easy to escape without drawing too much suspicion from your other half. Most gyms are open around the clock, meaning you won’t have to come up with last-minute excuses about where you’ve been.

Obviously, most people who hit the gym are there to work on their bodies. However, there’s an element of vanity to most gym visits. Men and women alike like to showcase their physical assets in public and the gym is one of the few places where you can do so unashamedly. These peacocking public displays often turn heads. Sometimes, this recognition is innocent enough. Other times, it’s more loaded.

If you’re getting regular attention from the same person, take the next steps and make contact. Roll out your usual icebreakers to get the conversation started. If the compliments are forthcoming and the tone is loose enough, don’t be afraid to be more upfront. Gym users with no boundaries aren’t going to be too worried about where they undress and go at it. As such, gym restrooms and shower cubicles provide the perfect venue for clinches. However, if you’ve made a connection in the middle of the day, it’s best to take the action elsewhere. Suggest heading out for a drink after you’ve finished your workout and take it from there.

Make Life Easy and Head Online

If you want to keep things streamlined, head online. Many dating apps are free to use and, provided you’re making use of anonymity features, you can use them without attracting suspicion from your other half. Hookup sites like Ashley Madison (Ashley Madison Tips: The Ultimate Playbook for Online Dating Success) are also worth exploring, especially if you’re looking for no-strings sex and don’t want to explain yourself.

Even if you’re dealing with someone who promises discretion, you’ll need to be a bit cautious. Extend your search radius so you’re not shitting on your own doorstep. You don’t want to walk past a one-time squeeze in the street while you’re out shopping with your wife or girlfriend.

How to Convince a Woman to Cheat with You

Convincing a woman to abandon her morals and cheat with you isn’t rocket science. However, different women require a different approach. If you’re targeting a married woman at the office, a delicate touch is needed. You’ll also need to be patient, preying on self-esteem issues and playing up your own virtues. If you’re looking for single women to have sex with, things are simpler. If they know you’re involved with someone, you’ll still need to put in the work to convince them you’re not a complete dirtbag. What’s more, even the most open-minded side piece is going to expect a level of discretion from your arrangement.