Why I’m The Best Online Dating Coach In The World

If you’re reading this clickbait title, then let me save you some trouble. I’m clearly not the world’s best dating coach. However, for a while now, since the evolution and explosion of this blog, I’ve been coaching single and married men and women on how to have affairs.

Having affairs and getting away with them is most probably the hardest thing to do when it comes to dating. Think about it for a second.

Let’s assume you’re a married 40 something year old guy and you’ve decided you would like to have an affair with that young, gorgeous 25 year old in your office. The odds are very heavily stacked against you. You are often competing with younger, thinner, single guys and to come across as attractive and desirable at 40 something, with a family, whilst that 25 year old knows there’s no future, is the definition of mission impossible.

Yet I do it all the time. And along the way started coaching others on how to do it the same way. I’ve gone out of my way to remain anonymous and so the coaching has never been about me wanting to become famous. In my very first post for this blog I said:

Now please know this, at the end of this rainbow, there’s no red carpet.

There’s no Brad Pitt making a movie of my exploits.

I live in the shadows, discretion is key or the jig is up!

And so when I’ve been blessed enough to help other married men and sometimes women, it’s always been about them and never about me trying to further my image.

Now 3 very unexpected things have happened during the journey of this blog.

To put my life into context, I own and operate various businesses. I suppose whilst I’m not an official coach, running various companies and teams makes you the truest form of a coach and leader. I acknowledge there are some incredible dating coaches I’ve seen on Instagram that have blown my mind; they seem truly exceptional. However, what I do in the real world, what I write about is different.

1. As soon as my blog got cited and I was asked to write for 2 National Newspapers, I started to get a lot of emails from men asking for help. Initially they wanted help in knowing how to find and have affairs. And for some of them an email response just wouldn’t cut it. They wanted my time and experience and were happy to pay for it. Thereby starting the coaching side of this site. So between running various businesses, having a family, having a social life and let’s not forget the other women – I had no choice but to charge for my time at something quite expensive which only attracted serious and motivated people to hire me.
2. Single people looking to date other single people started to approach me (at my total surprise). Initially I thought ‘huh?!!!‘ But the more they said picking up married people was clearly harder than single people the more I realised they were right. And it is. Being married and chasing a single young lady, is way harder than being single and doing the exact same thing.
3. One of the articles described me as ‘The Hitch For Cheaters‘. A term I don’t really love, especially because I don’t love Will Smith anymore after he slapped the legendary Chris Rock at the Oscars. But I got this email out of the blue asking me to sign an NDA. At first I was utterly confused, until my own attorney told me that a particular person who wanted to stay discreet needed to hire me. I of course refused to sign anything so that I could keep my own identity private. However a month later, an American Sitcom Actor wrote to me. I thought it was a prank! Who would think that a Hollywood Star would have trouble picking up women (married or single)? It had to be a prank. But no, to my utter surprise it wasn’t. He had been in London and had read my piece in the newspaper. He even cut the article out to take home with him in the hope of reaching out. And whilst it sounds cool to label myself as the Dating Coach to the stars, I’m not. I worked with one star, one time. And the second we fixed whatever was holding him back, I never heard from him again. Plus I don’t think he was too impressed that I refused to uncover my camera during our Zoom Call or even knew the show he was on.

None of the above 3 things did I expect. However, as a results orientated person, the one thing I care about is getting results. When I write, when I speak, the only things you can hear is that I come from a place of honesty (even though cheating is fundamentally dishonest) and a place of experience.

And those are palpable when we communicate.

I also got emails and got hired by men and women who had been having affairs, fallen in love and were struggling with the breakups, whilst not letting their family see or suspect their pain. A tall order let me tell you. Something I could truly empathise with because it’s what I’ve been through more than a few times.

Let me tell you why you shouldn’t hire me.

1. I’m bullshit proof, I don’t tolerate excuses and lack of progress.
2. I’m too expensive.
3. All I focus is on is results. And much like my boxing coach says ‘quitting isn’t an option‘.

Why You Should Hire Me

If you need help attracting the opposite sex (single or married), if you’re looking for help in having and hiding affairs, if you’re looking for help in dealing with breakups, then there’s a strong possibility I’m just the person you need to speak with.

And before you even ask, I love pushing exercise, fashion and skincare routines to all my clients. If you don’t look the part you’re never going to find someone that takes care of themselves too. Self care is so important.

So clearly whilst I’m not the best online dating coach in the world, helping people date married people is an art and a niche that very few have actual real world experience in. And if you’re single and you’re looking to date either married or single people – then believe you me, knowing what I teach is going to hold you in incredible stead.

I will help you dominate on the affair websites, having a dating profile that will have women flock to you and teach you how to date them.

The most frequently asked questions that get posed to me:

Are dating coaches worth it?

I don’t really know? If someone taught you the skills and attitude that you need to go out and have more success, then what’s that worth to you? Money is relative and for some people, they’d rather buy a lady an expensive bottle of champagne and impress her that way. Others would rather hire me to be able to charm the exact same lady into a date (or bed) without having to buy the champagne. I’m very very expensive and no doubt all other dating coaches whose full time living this is, probably charge a whole lot less than I do. But if you get the results you are after, then it’s definitely worth it.

Are dating coaches scams?

I’m sure some are! Like in all professions. But some of the dating coaches I’ve seen on Instagram seem amazing. I can’t vouch for the fact that they use their own skills in the real world, but more definitely the advice the give is pretty darned good.

Why are dating coaches single?

I didn’t know this was a thing. I’m married with quite a few women on the side.

Do dating coaches work?

I don’t know! The people I’ve worked with have had incredible success after just a few sessions.

What do dating coaches do?

I don’t know what others do, but I help, guide and teach you to have better tools and the right attitude to go out and do better. In addition I spend a lot of time working on self awareness. Something I find is lacking in most people I meet.

How much are dating coaches?

I have no idea, but I charge a small fortune!

How to find a dating coach?

I presume word of mouth, recommendations and results.

What to ask a dating coach?

It’s best to tell them your problem and hear how they intend to help you find that solution. Often, what you feel is your issue may not be the problem at all.

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